Gray frames/lost pixes

Thanks for your support @crackwitz.
Sorry, but maybe I did not understand correctly you suggestion.

Your answer means that opencv is using the video libraries: gstreamer or ffmpeg and I should test my stream in a program which use these libraries, right?

Is not that exactly what I did in my print screen above, when I compare VLC to opencv, same time, same camera? I showed the stream running perfectly in VLC and grayscreen in opencv.

Sorry about misunderstanding. I wait for your support.
Thanks and best regards.