As @berak said if you are processing on the CPU and only need CUDA for the DNN stuff you should be able to remove the remaining CUDA modules
-DBUILD_opencv_cudaarithm=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudabgsegm=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudafeatures2d=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudafilters=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudaimgproc=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudalegacy=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudaobjdetect=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudaoptflow=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudastereo=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudawarping=OFF -DBUILD_opencv_cudacodec=OFF