Cross compiling OpenCV with CUDA 11.4 for ARM64

[shakedko]

I cannot add the links to the post but this are related:

• Cannot link shared library dynamically linking to libcuda.so into binary · Issue #775 · NVIDIA/nvidia-docker · GitHub
• cmake: workaround to fix link issues with stubs/libcuda.so.1 · opencv/opencv@0fc5849 · GitHub